By Amy Kagan

The theme of this past week’s Torah portion, teach us an important lesson—that it’s critical to speak up for ourselves.

So, what does that story teach us?  A few things. First, let’s start with each of us as individuals.  Sometimes, we think ourselves so small, not important, that we overlook our basic needs.  We fall into the trap of “Who am I to demand something? There are more important things going on, or people who need it more than I do.”  Now, a little humility is critical, but we should balance that with the understanding that we too are important, that our needs should be met.

At camp, we also should look at this lesson from the bunk perspective.  There are many times during the summer we get to express our bunk’s choices around activities…each voice is important in making this decision, but there’s also a valuable lesson in making sure that all voices are heard.  I’m sure we’ve all been in a situation where a small, quiet voice has presented what turns out to be the best idea.  As leaders, we have to make room for all voices to be heard so that we can build true consensus.

That same concept plays out in larger groups, whether here at camp, or back home.  We benefit from different perspectives, and different experiences, because true diversity brings beautiful power.

And, while this may be the first time this summer you’re hearing the phrase “advocating for yourself”, I am confident that, for most of you, it’s not a new concept because you’ve been singing about it thanks to Hillel and Debbie Friedman.  I’m talking about the song “Im ein ani li, mi li”, which begins “If I am not for myself, then who will be for me?”  Please continue to speak up—and speak out—to ensure that your voice is heard.  And to make sure that all of the voices around you can be heard as well.

Amy Kagan is serving in her first year as the Associate Director of Camp Harlam. We are so excited to have her back at Camp Harlam this summer. Amy is a former camper, staff member and proud parent of 2 Harlam campers.